The Importance and necessity of Marital Psychology in the light of Seerah and Psychology

Authors

  • Muhammad Abdul Haq Ph.D Scholar, Deparment of Islamic Studies, University of Malakand, Pakistan
  • Prof. Dr. Ata ur Rahman Dean Faculty of Arts & Humanities, University of Malakand, Pakistan
  • Prof. Dr. Muhammad Tahir Khalili 3Chairman Department of Psychology, International Islamic University, Islamabad, Pakistan

Abstract

Allah Almighty, by His wisdom, has endowed man and beast with certain stimuli which motivate them to take necessary actions for the protection of their species and for the survival of the race. Islam takes into account the basic traits of human nature and caters to them in lawful ways. Among these natural stimuli is sexual stimulation. Of course, sexual desire is a great source of human strength and the best way to fulfill it is through marriage. Marriage is an individual, cultural and natural need that has been recognized by all the societies of the world. However, in the Quran and Sunnah, at the same time, it has been declared a religious and moral necessity, and instead, it has been commanded to be fulfilled. In the Holy Quran, it has been declared the Sunnah of the Prophets. If a person tries to turn away from natural things like marriage, then he faces dangerous consequences. Without marriage, the whole family and social system become chaotic. In order to be  mentally healthy, it is necessary to strike a balance between spirituality and  materialism, and for  this, it is  essential  that man fulfills his spiritual,  physical and  psychological  needs in  moderation. Allah has made the blessed personality of the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) an excellent example of a perfect human being. Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) has fulfilled the physical, Psychological, and spiritual requirements with perfect   balance for the perfection of personality.

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2021-12-31

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Abdul Haq, M., Rahman, P. D. A. ur, & Khalili, P. D. M. T. (2021). The Importance and necessity of Marital Psychology in the light of Seerah and Psychology. VFAST Transactions on Islamic Research, 9(4), 76–81. Retrieved from https://vfast.org/journals/index.php/VTIR/article/view/832

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