A Scholarly Review of the Islamic Principles of Parenting and Contemporary Approaches

Abstract

This research article explores the dual impact of parental involvement on children’s character and behavioral development, drawing on insights from Islamic teachings in the Quran and Hadith. It investigates how parental attitudes, engagement, and role modeling influence various dimensions of a child's upbringing, including mental, emotional, physical, and moral growth. Positive parental interactions, characterized by love, encouragement, and support, are shown to foster children’s self-esteem, resilience, and adaptability, helping them navigate social and personal challenges. Such interactions also facilitate the development of core moral values, religious understanding, social skills, and self-discipline, which are essential for healthy personality formation.
However, the study also addresses the adverse effects that arise from parental neglect, harshness, or excessive strictness, which can create feelings of fear, resentment, and inadequacy in children. These negative experiences may inhibit children's potential for positive personality development and social adjustment. This article underscores the importance of a balanced, compassionate, and informed approach to parenting, with parents serving not only as authority figures but as supportive guides, to help their children become constructive and well-integrated members of society.